To un-go from the flow
Going with the flow is easy at first. At some point the flow will not feel like a flow anymore. It is not easy to act when the conventional does not meet your needs anymore. There are three steps to get you out of the rut and into designing a life, education, company - you name it! - that works for you.
Trust & Chemistry
When you decide to look into co-foundership you might want to consider what is important to make it work together. Do you share the same values? And do you complement each other? Evaluate your current relationship. A basis of trust and chemistry is what you need.
Calculated Risks
Entrepreneurs are often viewed as risk takers. That doesn’t mean they are reckless. These are often calculated risks based upon worst-case scenarios with contingency plans. So some risks won’t hurt you, unless you think about them at least a bit wisely.
Chaordic Balance
When a business becomes bigger it usually adopts more systems and rules to function. Innovation and creating new things becomes more difficult resulting in stagnation. On the other hand you have the creatives who thrive in a free environment and form creative ideas like there is no tomorrow. But the risk thereof is not finishing projects and risking no output. The secret lies in balancing Chaos and Order.
Can endless work be part of proper self-care?
If your work is fulfilling and gives you energy you’re one happy person. Fulfillment is part of self-care and therefore quite important. But when is it not fulfilling anymore? What is the tipping point of your fulfilling work becoming too much? Think about it.
Innovate small
So you feel it’s time for a change. A new plan next to your current business. How do you get there without losing ground? Start small, experiment and accept the transition period. It takes time and you will get there.
Be incomplete
Selling your work is much more difficult if you aren’t able to keep it simple. Yes, you are a wonderful complex and skilled human being. To be complete in communicating your capabilities can make your message towards a possible client unnecessarily broad and unspecific. When you get the job you can elaborate on your skills, before that keep it simple!
What's the worst that can happen?
Many will recognize that the fear that things could go wrong keeps us from acting. When you notice that in yourself, an interesting exercise to do is to ask yourself "and then what?" multiple times. It might change your mind.
Thinking for yourself
Do you keep things from others that you would’ve liked to share out loud? Maybe you’re afraid of their reaction or you think they cannot handle it. Why not let them be the judge of that? So next time take the step and work your way towards mutual understanding.
Think vs Act
We think before we act because we want to minimize the risk of failure. But what are we afraid of will happen? And when is enough enough?
Creative 'Unsurity'
Being a creative entrepreneur or freelancer means dealing with your work and the subjective view of people on your work. Your work may suck sometimes, that’s just the way it is. But don’t let that get you down! In order to grow you need to not know sometimes. Be creative, take a hit or a win and move on. It’s about the work, not about YOU as a person.
The adult in you
It is easy to blame others when bad or annoying things happen to you. Lost your job? Don’t feel valued at work? Back in the days you probably had your parents to look out for you and make you feel safe. At some point you have to become your own adult. From an entrepreneurial point of view it means you can take ownership of very interesting things: Choose your clients, create your own business strategy and so on. That doesn’t sound so bad right?
Two funky ways to develop confidence
A happy client gives you confidence as a professional, the more happy clients the more confident you will be. But this is not a linear process. There will be negative experiences along the way. And those we remember all too well. There are other ways to boost your confidence! Some funky alternatives exist. What about performing as an artist? Or radiating the importance of the work you do? It is after all what you believe in!
Company-Founder-Fit
It makes sense to craft services and products exactly the way your clients want it to be. What if you would look at your company and build it up in such a great way as you tend to the wishes of your customers? You make the company fit your needs. It will help you create a better flow and it will help you find the clients that like what you stand for.
When Returns Diminish to negative
Spending more time on working on your business does not make it better. Productivity diminishes. Working 60 hours every week is not sustainable. It sets you at a risk of losing time in a sense. It might be worthwhile to see what output you produce with a work week including a more modest number of hours spent on work.